How do you REALLY get your CHOICE of Girls? So you can Date or Go home with the ones YOU want?
This is an intriguing subject because it's basically why I got into game. It's the dream we're sold when we first learn about game... But the reality is, this can also be one of the highest level topics there is in game. In fact, Game Solved is about the only source in existence that really addresses this topic. Every RSD video series, every OG book by Mystery, everything I've ever seen tells you how to get good with girls, then tells you that you'll resonate with some girls and not with others. A couple things, like RSD Luke's Social Circle Blueprint or RSD Madison's Get Your Ten go into designing your life around going out and finding and getting the specific girls that you want. I've never seen anything that truly addresses how to walk through life and if you encounter your type of girl, how to go give that a great chance of working out. All those sources START to give you that answer, sell you on that dream, but don't actually give you the answer.
The reason is because it means that you need to be able to attract, engage, and escalate with girls in almost any scenario, with all kinds of contexts, with her in all kinds of mindsets, and do all that well enough that she'll AT LEAST really WANT to kiss you (even if she doesn't). (See the mini-article on getting girls to text you back every time – and you'll realize that if you can't meet a girl and get her to where she really WANTS to kiss you, or does, then your chances that she'll even text you back drop dramatically). If you don't go home with her there, you then need to get her to meet you again. Which is complicated, especially the more attractive she is and the more other guys that are hitting her up. As you'll see if you read the mini-article on actually getting 9s and 10s, you'll have to be socially competitive most likely to get a 9 or 10 to meet up with you. And as discussed in the getting her to text you back article, you'll probably need to use Instagram properly to show her your personality and social competitiveness enough to get her to meet you again. Or, you'll need the game to go home with her right when you met her. As you can see, there's a LOT going on if you want to have 'choice' among girls.
Many times you'll see the girls you're interested in at the grocery store, or on the dance floor at a bar, or with their friends at a yoga class. They will have different personalities. You won't be able to guess exactly what their personality is, nor does any approach or line work with ALL girls. Not only that, but one single girl can be in dramatically different moods based on anything from the random chance of what she's feeling to the time of day to where you run into her and who she does or doesn't know around her. The fact is, I've never found any approach 'system' that's highly reliable across all of these, except one little trick that I'm not going to write here (it's in the book, but it's kind of cheating). What DOES work across all these scenarios, is being able to develop a deep intuition for emotions, where she's at, what her energy and mood are right now – then being able to think and feel what's going to make her excited right now based on what she's feeling right now. Then it has to come with the right frame. Not “trying to get” her to be excited or “asking” her to interact with you in a fun way, but learning how to be subtly, solidly commanding of the right energy. To come in with powerful energy, alpha energy – but matched to the girl and her current mood and energy. A lot of things here are non-verbal. It's not even what you say, but your rhythm of how fast or slow you say it – your tonality and whether it's aggressive or soft or commanding or needy. It's if you lean in or don't. It's how you hold eye contact. It's how you smile and when you smile. It's learning the feel for all of these. It's learning really SIMPLE ways to understand all of these, and see the world through these lenses, then execute it. It's simplifying it so much that you can ingrain it into your brain and do it all the time.
As with everything we dive into in these mini-articles, I'm giving you the exact, highest level, mastery answer... But the topic is complicated and nuanced. Which is why the book and the FREE First 10 Chapters lead you through that entire journey so that you can just walk out your door and SEE the world that way. Then act accordingly. They show you how to train it to be automatic, and the Software Trainers work like a workout guide and get you doing the exact right things to automatically execute these things daily.
THEN, it's about how do you take things from these different starting points all the way through creating sexual tension. As we discuss in all the articles, and really dive into in the FREE First 10 Chapters, sexual tension is everything in game. It's the missing key that every other source barely discusses or entirely overlooks. It's desire combined with a tension from the lack of that desire. An unmet desire that drags girls in and fascinates them and keeps them there.
But to go from these flexibly, smoothly, 'naturally' adapted 'opens' where you can go up and command an exciting energy with any girl in any scenario, to sexual tension, you then need to know exactly how to escalate and guide things. Not in the token ways you'll see in RSD and Mystery and all other material. But in a very nuanced way. So you know EXACTLY the steps girls go through as they escalate from any point all the way to the highest points. AND the resistances and walls they go through and that the process must overcome. You have to know if she's in state A or state C or state F, what do you to to escalate from there? If she's experiencing resistance type 1 or 3 or 7, what do you do about that? What's the progression? How do girls really feel and think about escalation? What do they like? What don't they? How does their sexuality and attraction really work, in a way that's such an accurate picture that you can INTUITIVELY just feel and understand girls and where they are and how it moves forward?
Those things are an entire journey of learning, understanding, and seeing things differently. We launch down that journey with some INCREDIBLE realizations and things that will change the way you see the world in the first 60 pages of the FREE First 10 Chapters. Then we continue that journey all the way until you're a true master of that journey in Volume 2. These are the things we focus on and train into you in the bootcamps and the software trainers. They're the things that change your entire fucking life. They MAKE you 'that guy', rather than a guy that's just running around trying to do a couple things and hoping to kind of link a couple things up and occasionally 'win'. They just MAKE you the guy girls are enthralled by.
(Make sure you read the other mini-articles, especially “What does the absolute PERFECT game look like? What is the PEAK of game?” which covers most of the best pieces of 'perfect game'. And BE SURE TO DOWNLOAD THE FREE First 10 Chapters – which are a full 60 PAGES of really getting into how to do all of this!!)
The reason is because it means that you need to be able to attract, engage, and escalate with girls in almost any scenario, with all kinds of contexts, with her in all kinds of mindsets, and do all that well enough that she'll AT LEAST really WANT to kiss you (even if she doesn't). (See the mini-article on getting girls to text you back every time – and you'll realize that if you can't meet a girl and get her to where she really WANTS to kiss you, or does, then your chances that she'll even text you back drop dramatically). If you don't go home with her there, you then need to get her to meet you again. Which is complicated, especially the more attractive she is and the more other guys that are hitting her up. As you'll see if you read the mini-article on actually getting 9s and 10s, you'll have to be socially competitive most likely to get a 9 or 10 to meet up with you. And as discussed in the getting her to text you back article, you'll probably need to use Instagram properly to show her your personality and social competitiveness enough to get her to meet you again. Or, you'll need the game to go home with her right when you met her. As you can see, there's a LOT going on if you want to have 'choice' among girls.
Many times you'll see the girls you're interested in at the grocery store, or on the dance floor at a bar, or with their friends at a yoga class. They will have different personalities. You won't be able to guess exactly what their personality is, nor does any approach or line work with ALL girls. Not only that, but one single girl can be in dramatically different moods based on anything from the random chance of what she's feeling to the time of day to where you run into her and who she does or doesn't know around her. The fact is, I've never found any approach 'system' that's highly reliable across all of these, except one little trick that I'm not going to write here (it's in the book, but it's kind of cheating). What DOES work across all these scenarios, is being able to develop a deep intuition for emotions, where she's at, what her energy and mood are right now – then being able to think and feel what's going to make her excited right now based on what she's feeling right now. Then it has to come with the right frame. Not “trying to get” her to be excited or “asking” her to interact with you in a fun way, but learning how to be subtly, solidly commanding of the right energy. To come in with powerful energy, alpha energy – but matched to the girl and her current mood and energy. A lot of things here are non-verbal. It's not even what you say, but your rhythm of how fast or slow you say it – your tonality and whether it's aggressive or soft or commanding or needy. It's if you lean in or don't. It's how you hold eye contact. It's how you smile and when you smile. It's learning the feel for all of these. It's learning really SIMPLE ways to understand all of these, and see the world through these lenses, then execute it. It's simplifying it so much that you can ingrain it into your brain and do it all the time.
As with everything we dive into in these mini-articles, I'm giving you the exact, highest level, mastery answer... But the topic is complicated and nuanced. Which is why the book and the FREE First 10 Chapters lead you through that entire journey so that you can just walk out your door and SEE the world that way. Then act accordingly. They show you how to train it to be automatic, and the Software Trainers work like a workout guide and get you doing the exact right things to automatically execute these things daily.
THEN, it's about how do you take things from these different starting points all the way through creating sexual tension. As we discuss in all the articles, and really dive into in the FREE First 10 Chapters, sexual tension is everything in game. It's the missing key that every other source barely discusses or entirely overlooks. It's desire combined with a tension from the lack of that desire. An unmet desire that drags girls in and fascinates them and keeps them there.
But to go from these flexibly, smoothly, 'naturally' adapted 'opens' where you can go up and command an exciting energy with any girl in any scenario, to sexual tension, you then need to know exactly how to escalate and guide things. Not in the token ways you'll see in RSD and Mystery and all other material. But in a very nuanced way. So you know EXACTLY the steps girls go through as they escalate from any point all the way to the highest points. AND the resistances and walls they go through and that the process must overcome. You have to know if she's in state A or state C or state F, what do you to to escalate from there? If she's experiencing resistance type 1 or 3 or 7, what do you do about that? What's the progression? How do girls really feel and think about escalation? What do they like? What don't they? How does their sexuality and attraction really work, in a way that's such an accurate picture that you can INTUITIVELY just feel and understand girls and where they are and how it moves forward?
Those things are an entire journey of learning, understanding, and seeing things differently. We launch down that journey with some INCREDIBLE realizations and things that will change the way you see the world in the first 60 pages of the FREE First 10 Chapters. Then we continue that journey all the way until you're a true master of that journey in Volume 2. These are the things we focus on and train into you in the bootcamps and the software trainers. They're the things that change your entire fucking life. They MAKE you 'that guy', rather than a guy that's just running around trying to do a couple things and hoping to kind of link a couple things up and occasionally 'win'. They just MAKE you the guy girls are enthralled by.
(Make sure you read the other mini-articles, especially “What does the absolute PERFECT game look like? What is the PEAK of game?” which covers most of the best pieces of 'perfect game'. And BE SURE TO DOWNLOAD THE FREE First 10 Chapters – which are a full 60 PAGES of really getting into how to do all of this!!)
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